People need to stop planning things that they want me to attend on Sundays. I will not be there if you do. Everyone that knows me well enough to invite me anywhere knows that I watch NASCAR on Sundays (or Saturday nights) and I don't like to miss it. I would not plan a Sunday breakfast and then invite people that always go to church on Sunday. That would just be stupid.
DO NOT INVITE ME AND MAKE ME FEEL GUILTY FOR NOT GOING, DAMN IT!!! The guilt part is my fault, but the inviting is not. You don't invite me, and I won't feel guilty for not going, and we'll all live happily ever after. Got it?
I really need to work on the guilt thing too. I've spent my whole life feeling guilty about one thing or another, and I'm really getting tired of it. I'm tired of constantly being afraid I'll hurt someone's feelings.
Now I'm feeling guilty for typing this and posting it! Gawd! I need a shrink. I'm posting it now before I change my mind and delete it.